Family Traveller’s Amy Hopkins checks into Four Seasons in Hampshire to find out what the historic manor house hotel has to offer families with young children 

The sumptuous hotel bar

Standing on tiptoes in front of a towering mahogany bookcase, Annie reaches up and plucks a Scrabble box from one of the shelves. Before I can seize it from her, she’s shaking it above her head and plastic tiles are raining down noisily onto the wooden floor. My 21-month-old daughter is oblivious to her sophisticated surroundings; the luxe wallpaper, velvet armchairs, gold-framed oil paintings and brass lamps that adorn the bar in the Four Seasons hotel in Hampshire. When our waitress, Desree, returns with our drinks and spots the contents of the Scrabble box strewn across the floor she smiles broadly at Annie: ‘Ooh, Scrabble? How advanced!’ The decor here may be refined, but children are warmly welcomed. 

Every corner of this stately manor house is twinkling

Moments after we check in, the cheery Italian concierge, Carla, invites Annie to choose a toy from the trunk at reception. Annie rummages keenly and pulls out a metre long, pink plastic tube bearing the words DOLPHIN WATER CANON. ‘You’re going to have fun at the pool later,’ Carla chuckles, but Annie has already disappeared around the corner and up the corridor, waving her water canon aloft. I find her in the stairwell, gazing wide-eyed at a 12-foot Christmas tree, her chubby hands already grasping one of the low-hanging baubles. It’s two weeks (14 sleeps) until Christmas and every corner of this stately manor house is twinkling. A mini forest of eight Christmas trees flanks the entrance to the Wild Carrot restaurant while, in the bar, tables bear artistic displays of pine cones, berries, holly and golden hydrangeas. In one corridor, an entire gingerbread village spans two table tops, imbuing the air with the syrupy scent of Christmas. 

Annie and Amy in the hotel lobby

Unfortunately, conditions outside are far less jolly, as southern England is being battered by a storm. Our sturdy Four Seasons umbrellas threaten to turn inside out as we trot across from the main house to the pretty two-storey cottage that houses the kids club, Kids For All Seasons. In less blustery conditions, children make the most of the 500 acres of rolling countryside that surround the hotel, flying kites, doing treasure hunts and visiting the estate’s chickens (whom I can only hope are locked away in this weather).

Upstairs at the kids club there’s table tennis, air hockey and table football for older children. Below is a large bright room, with the usual kiddie fare; beanbags, building blocks, giant Lego, dolls houses and crafts. Annie makes a beeline for the wooden kitchen and busies herself with loading wooden vegetables into the microwave. 

Annie, busy in the kids' club

That evening, back in our spacious suite, my husband Nick and I eagerly await the arrival of our pre-booked babysitter. While we get ready in the large marble bathroom, Annie occupies herself by turning the minibar into a doll’s house, arranging her characters, Jack Daniels and co, on the fridge shelves. A mix up with our booking means our babysitter, a warm Thai woman named Panapa, arrives half an hour late, but the concierge promises to deduct the babysitting cost from our bill. Downstairs, Nick and I snuggle into a bunkett at the Wild Carrot restaurant. A sign asks parents to make sure children wear headphones when using electronic devices. ‘Kids are welcome here, as long as they don’t disturb anyone’, explains our waiter, Peter, whose regulation Four Seasons’ bowtie and tweed waistcoat is charmingly betrayed by a hipster haircut. 

With an Italian Executive Chef, Paolo Belloni, it’s no surprise that Wild Carrot’s menu shows strong Mediterranean influences (Umbria truffles feature heavily), alongside plenty of seasonal, locally sourced ingredients. ‘It’s a British kitchen with Italian tricks’, Peter explains. I note the British-Italian blend in my delicious dish of king scallops, from the Isle of Mull, served with chorizo. A good meal is followed by a deep sleep on a Four Seasons signature mattress, which has special heat-absorbent technology and, should we wish, is ours to buy for £2,350. 

The next morning, we’re eager to check out the kids’ pool, which Carla had told us is more like a water park than a swimming pool. As well as a four-metre long red slide, there are rotating umbrella fountains and bubble jets. The fountains aren’t working when we arrive, but a young engineer, Bobby, works tirelessly to fix them and fetches presents for Annie and the other children to make amends. Annie couldn’t care less. She’s too busy splashing in the warm, shallow water and giggling when her dad blasts her with water from her new dolphin water canon. Half an hour later, Bobby calls out triumphantly and the water fountains spring into action, loudly and dramatically shooting water into the air. The other children shriek with delight, but it’s all too much for little Annie and she bursts into tears. 

I haven’t found perfection at Four Seasons, but this is a divine-looking hotel with good food and great family facilities. I’ve been most impressed by the generous spirit of the staff, who rush to put things right when there’s a problem and delight in kids being kids, even if it means making a mess in the hotel's beautiful bar.

The Lowdown 

Location: Chalky Lane, Hook, Winchfield, Hampshire RG27 8TD

Price: Rooms start at £320 per night for two sharing a Garden View Room (excl. breakfast)

Nearby attractions: Stonehenge, Windsor Castle and the Jane Austen Museum 

Facilities: Restaurant, bar, library, two indoor pools including kids' pool, crystal steam room, sauna,  outdoor vitality pool, spa, tennis court, kids' club. Children under five eat free from the children’s menu. Flexible sleeping options for families. Dogs welcome.

Kids' club:  Under 3s can attend with parents or a babysitter. Babysitting costs £54 for 3 hours (minimum of 3 hours) and £10 for every additional half hour. Over 3s: 9.30am and 4.30pm, weekends and school holidays 

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