When it comes to finding a great hotel for families, we know our stuff. So when we personally recommend 15 family hotels from the Cairngorms to Cornwall, you know they’re the best. Now all you have to do is choose the one you love most.
Glenmorangie House, Tain, Highlands, Scotland
The makers of Glenmorangie originally bought this sturdy 17th- century hotel in Tain, an hour’s drive north of Inverness, for corporate entertaining. But lucky for us they threw their doors open to the public in the 1990s. I say that it’s a hotel, but it’s more like staying in a well-heeled friend’s country house. A friend who also happens to have an award-winning chef and magnificent taste in interior design.
Every one of the six bedrooms in the main house has been individually designed in a fun and quirky style. All are inspired by a Glenmorangie blend (Home, Reserve, Autumn, Nectar, Sunset and Wildwood) with hand painted wildflower wallpaper, bespoke tartan and furniture made of oak casks. It really is, as the owner’s describe it, a sensory playground.
But for families, the best place to stay are the three beautiful crofters’ cottages, to the rear of the house in the courtyard, which sleep four, plus a cot.
The house itself teeters on the edge of the Moray Firth coastline. So we were only a short hop, skip and jump down a grassy path through fields of barley to a private beach. Here, there was plenty of stone skimming and fresh air to be had.
Escape to a place with zero light pollution and endless stargazing
There are no TVs in any of the rooms or cottages, and for good reason. This is get-out-and-about country. You can take dolphin-watching trips at nearby Cromarty (of shipping forecast fame). Horse riding is also available. And the hotel will arrange anything from foraging or star gazing to falconry and archery. Naturally, guests get free entry to the Glenmorangie distillery tour . It’s just down the road and children are welcome, although there’s no dram tasting for them.
Dinner is a relaxed, communal affair of four-courses eaten around a 22-seater table in the grand dining room. An earlier supper is good for younger kids, but older ones can enjoy the grown-up company and local dishes like Orkney scallops and Aberdeen Angus steaks. Although a comfortable lounge with board games sits next to the dining room and makes a neat escape when sitting down with the adults gets too much.
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Polurrian, Mullion, Cornwall, south of England
The adventure here starts even before you set off. Just use the hotel’s full name in front of the kids – Polurrian on the Lizard – and their imaginations soar. Who’s Polurrian? Where’s he riding on a lizard? You can tell them later it’s named for Cornwall’s Lizard peninsula.
Expect young eyes to widen further as you arrive. If the hotel were any closer to the cliff edge, Health & Safety would not be happy. Waves crash dramatically at the feet of Polurrian’s granite mount. Trees stand frozen into permanently windswept forms. And you’re within ‘race-you-down-to-the-beach’ distance of what’s effectively the hotel’s own sandy, surf-splashed and rockpool-speckled cove.
Follow the footpath a little further and you’ll discover coves, caves, seals, surf spots, lighthouses and kayak-hire companies. Plus, the glorious 1,000km South West Coast Path runs right beside the hotel’s gardens.
Swimming pools for sunny days and winter weather
Or just stay put. Because the Polurrian is also an excellent place not to leave for a weekend. Its self-catering villas are perfectly self-contained retreats beyond the main building. Although the hotel’s family rooms are recently refurbished and deliciously restful, with separate rooms for parents and kids.
There’s also small spa and indoor pool, as well as a suntrap outdoor pool with views across the bay. Still sound like too much effort? The Polurrian’s bar and restaurant sits behind a great wraparound wall of glass so you can gaze at panoramic views over a pot of Cornish tea or even a surprisingly good local Pinot Noir sparkling rosé. When we visited during February half term, we had both a few days of sunshine and a few holed up in that bar watching battleship-grey clouds scud by. I won’t say which days were better.
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The Relais Henley, Henley-on-Thames, Oxfordshire
If you’re easily starstruck, choose rooms with care at The Relais Henley. The Royal Crest in room 108 was painted in 1642, when King Charles I was a guest. And in 1942, Princess Grace (plain Grace Kelly at the time) stayed in room 114. However, proud as the hotel is of its heritage, it’s not too proud to move on, and these days historic guests would barely recognise the place.
Completely renovated in 2021, the former coaching inn now welcomes you to individually designed rooms with glamorous marble bathrooms and, in some cases, grand four-poster beds. The Clipper all-day brasserie has a hint of nautical design but not enough to shiver your timbers. And menus by Mosimann’s of London are excellent.
But is The Relais Henley, ‘much too good for children’? Forgive us for quoting Matilda’s villainous Miss Trunchbull, but she’s a clue as to why kids particularly love it here – in nearby Great Missenden you’ll find the Roald Dahl Museum. Of course, the Thames is also prime Kenneth Grahame territory. In fact Henley’s River & Rowing Museum has a permanent Wind in the Willows exhibition. Then there’s exploring to be done in the surrounding Chiltern Hills. And if you visit in summer, make it your mission to mess about in boats or at least take your little hearties on a river cruise. So, in conclusion, we’re happy to report The Relais Henley is perfect for children – sorry Miss Trunchbull.
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Lime Wood, New Forest, Hampshire
What we love most about Lime Wood hotel in Hampshire is that it’s a family-friendly hotel, in disguise. So if you’re a parent who’s not quite ready to sacrifice style for plastic forks at dinner and soft play in the lobby, then this place is for you.
The Lime Wood way is to welcome little ones with open arms, but no more than any other guest (including dogs, who can stay in the pretty Garden Cottages). This means when you set off on a ramble to spot New Forest ponies and wild roaming pigs, you’ve a choice of three maps: easy-peasy; middle of the road; hardcore family trek. Or when you grab your designer wellies (free to borrow) there are sizes for everybody, from toddlers to teens.
Borrow bikes to explore the New Forest
Bikes are up for grabs too, including kid-sized ones. So can easily discover that nowhere does cycling trails like the New Forest and why it’s obligatory for every trail to end with a Dorset cream tea. Don’t even think about missing the nearby village of Lyndhurst, it’s idyllic in the extreme. Even the workshops for which Lime Wood is so famous, cover everything from skincare to seasonal eating and include one called ‘Healthy Cooking for Kids’.
Rooms steer clear of bunkbeds and kid-centric interiors, and instead lure children with touchable wooden furniture, forest prints and fabrics. Staying in the Lake Cabin with its living sedum roof and reclaimed timber inside and out, feels like being on your own little private island. But the thing the kids will never forget is the food. Head chefs Angela Hartnett and Luke Holder create locally sourced Italian dishes including arancini, gnocchi and plenty of pasta. So kids are kept full and happy, without the need for a separate children’s menu.
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Lough Erne Resort, Enniskillen, Northern Ireland
As we drove towards Lough Erne Resort, the turrets of the lodges emerged on the horizon just as the sun broke through the slate-coloured sky. ‘Look,’ exclaimed my five-year-old.
‘It’s Rapunzel’s house.’ So when we discovered at check-in that very house was the three-bedroom self-catering lodge we’d booked for our family of five, the excitement was uncontainable.
The kids ran upstairs to bag beds by the windows to let down their imaginary hair, while we were left with the master suite on the ground floor. The resort boasts a lakeside position within a 600-acre peninsula in County Fermanagh. The grounds double up as two championship golf courses, Faldo and Castle Hume and the kids loved watching golf buggies pootle past.
My son was beside himself when a helicopter landed: although the drive from Belfast is so picturesque I think the passengers missed out. We all enjoyed the magic of the hotel’s fairy tale walk, featuring leprechauns and we loved taking a pedalo out on the lake. However, the highlight was a ‘posh’ afternoon tea in the Catalina Restaurant when the kids dressed up for tiny sandwiches and dainty cakes.